Lets Coffee Talk is Back on….
Today I write to you as a married woman.
Never in my life had I thought that I would say that again, but hey, this life has shocked me time and time again, so why does this surprise me?
Recently I have talked to a lot of my friends who have jumped into the FIRE of divorce, and hell yes, it is a fire. (Not to mention the John and Kate plus eight debacle) I have been a lucky confidant of these broken and tired hearts. The one thing that I have to offer my friends is the healed heart of failure and the new blossoming of a new dawn.
I like them have been in the position of admitting failure, blaming others, blaming myself, and eventual forgiveness of all parties. Well, the last part, forgiveness, is a bridge that they have not met yet, but I know that they will. There is something that comes with all this, a new birth of someone much stronger and more aware.
I would like to say to all my friends that divorce is not a bad thing, not living a life of happiness however is a complete waste.
Sometimes chapters end, and sometimes it hurts, even is a pain in the ass occasionally, okay, always, but when they end, you have the opportunity to write a new chapter in your life, a better chapter, a more honest chapter.
Whose fault is it anyway?
May I ask you the obvious question? (Yes I may because this is my site)
*Why does this matter?
Why me?
Again….
*Why not you are you not human?
How could this happen?
Here is your answer…. People change, sometimes not for the better, sometimes not fast enough for each other, and sometimes not at all. We are never the same from day to day, we are influenced by our environment, and because this doesn’t always happen at the same pace, we often become a person that the other doesn’t like that much, therefore, we fall out of love.
This is a very hard time in your life, but I promise, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Most of us can say this, at least we are not John and Kate plus eight.
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